Resources & FAQs for Support Systems of LGBTQ+ Youth

Support Resources for LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies

• Crisis Support:
  • The Trevor Project Lifeline: 1-866-488-7386 (24/7 support for ages 13–24).
  • TrevorChat: Online instant messaging support at www.TrevorChat.org.
  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255.
  • Emergency: Call 911 or go to a hospital if there is an immediate risk of self-harm.
• Key Advice for Allies:
  • Take all mentions of suicide seriously; listen, validate feelings, and connect the person to professional resources.
  • If you are concerned about someone, tell a trusted adult (teacher, parent, counselor, doctor, or relative).
  • You are not responsible for another person's actions, but you can be a vital link to help.
• Supporting Family Dynamics:
  • PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays): A recommended resource for parents struggling to accept their LGBTQ+ children.
  • PFLAG Tools: Includes the booklet "Our Daughters and Sons" and a Chapter Finder to connect with other parents.
• Supporting Transgender Youth:
  • Show unconditional support and avoid rushing the individual to define their identity.
  • Educate yourself using resources like The Gender Spectrum and The Gender Book.
  • Create an open, nonjudgmental environment by discussing gender identity in media or pop culture.
• Setting Boundaries:
  • You are not obligated to maintain relationships with family members who are abusive or discriminatory.
  • You have the right to set clear boundaries regarding communication and behavior.
  • Prioritize your own safety and mental health when deciding whether to engage with unsupportive family members.
• Additional Community Resources:
  • TrevorSpace: A safe, secure social network for LGBTQ+ youth (www.TrevorSpace.org).